Different approaches have different results on various people. There isn’t a definite way to connect with everyone you encounter.
However, they lack one thing: balance! What most people seem to forget is that, in life, there is no one size fits all solution. What do I believe? I honestly think that all these perspectives have merits. On the other hand, a few philosophers claim that since absence makes the heart grow fonder, you should limit the time you spend with them to allow them to miss you. Some opine that you should spend as much time in-person with them as possible. However, others opine that incessant calls can get annoying, and you may even start to look desperate.
Many people claim that you should text and call more often if you want to connect with others. There has always been this never-ending debate about the best ways to connect with people.